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There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.

The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same.

When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there. " A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us."

*Topik era pagi ni pun pasal marah. Kebetulan ler pulak"

Sesampainya di office pagi ni, aku dikejutkan dengan satu cerita yang agak panas di QC department masa kini. Peristiwa ni berlaku sabtu lps, dikantin dimana si A dan si B ni tgh lunch. Selesai makan, si A ni nak basuh ler tupperware kat sinki.tanpa disengajakan tupperware tu terjatuh ke lantai. lebihan kuah kari dalam tupperware tu terpercik ler kat seluar si B..bukannyer banyak pun kotornyer, cinonet jerr...yang si B ni lak kebetulan hari tu pakai seluar putih...

Si B ni bengang betul seluarnya kotor. siap mintak ganti rugi tuuuu....RM 15 ....padahal perkara tu tak disengajakan langsung oleh si A..memula si A ni ingatkan si B main main jer..rerupanya mmg sungguh sungguh si B mintak ganti rugi....menangis gak ler si A gara gara tergujat ngan tindakan si B ni tadi . Jadi si A ni pun bayar jer ler RM 15 ...akibat dari peristiwa tu, hubungan ke dua-duanya tadi jadi renggang....

Bukan lah niat di sini nak mengumpat, cuma kita ambik ikhtibar jer lar dari story tadi.diSbbkan RM 15, hubungan jadi renggang, kengkawan yang lain pun pandang semacam kat kita..so tak syok ler kan...oleh itu, berhati-hati ler ketika berkata-kata..bak kata pepatah melayu "terlajak perahu boleh diundur, terlajak kata buruk padahnyer"...